Singleness in Canada: Myth or Reality? Speed Dating | Montreal

Montreal, Canada – In a world where dating apps dominate, a young Montreal entrepreneur is offering a more human alternative: recreating the conditions of social bonding through face-to-face events. His name: Fredy Mignon, founder of the concept Brisons la glace (Break the Ice), evenings that combine social debates and speed dating sessions.

Settling in Canada is a considerable challenge for many newcomers. Between isolation, cultural barriers, and the difficulty of expanding one’s social circle, many struggle to find a partner.

“In Montreal, sometimes it feels like everyone is single, even if that’s not always the case,” observes Fredy Mignon. “Often, people simply lack opportunities to truly meet.”

Fredy Mignon’s journey is unique. His pseudonym, inherited from a high school nickname and now a public identity on social media, today accompanies his professional project.

“I don’t claim to have all the answers,” he explains. “But since I was 18, I’ve been trying to understand male-female relationships. Rather than staying alone with my questions, I wanted to create a space where everyone can share and learn from each other’s experiences.”

The principle of Brisons la glace is simple: participants start the evening with group games and debates around topics that are often taboo in relationships – red flags, financial management as a couple, or even the role of family in the relationship.

These discussions make it possible to discover each person’s values and personality before moving on to speed dating. “Unlike apps, here everything is real, without filters or Photoshop,” insists Fredy.

Through his experience as an organizer, Fredy has also identified certain topics to avoid during a first encounter. “Talking about body count or financial situation on the very first meeting is not recommended. It makes people uncomfortable and prevents a real connection from being created.”

For him, the essential thing remains being authentic, listening actively, and getting to know the other person beyond the superficial.

When asked about the mistake most singles make, Fredy adds nuance: “Many are not necessarily looking for a serious relationship. Some are looking for short-term relationships. What matters is being honest about your intentions.”

Asked about the sometimes scandalous reputation of Montrealers when it comes to relationships, Fredy prefers to remain cautious. “Montreal is a cosmopolitan city, with very different realities depending on the communities. In the Afro community, many say they are single, but the definition of a couple here is sometimes different from what is known elsewhere.”

To conclude, Fredy Mignon delivers a simple message: “Be real. Don’t rely on the illusions of social media. Present yourself as you are. Men must remain respectful, and women should not hesitate to embrace their feelings.”

And for those who want to try the experience, the next edition of Brisons la glace will take place in Montreal in September, with the promise of monthly events to come.

At a time when relationships seem increasingly virtual, Brisons la glace restores the full importance of face-to-face. More than just speed dating, these evenings have become a social laboratory, a place where speech and authenticity regain their place.